I had been moaning about the lack of travel in my life for years, so over the last few I've made sure to visit the places I have always wanted to see… Budapest was one that I felt very strongly drawn to.
If somebody asks me where my favourite city is, I don't even need to think about it, Budapest is a very exciting place to explore, full of beautiful architecture, a rich history that needs to be listened to, stunning scenery and great local hotspots to eat, drink and unwind. The spas, 'ruin bars' and street food are just as much fun to experience as the ancient castles and monuments - there is literally something for everybody here. Watch my full Budapest travel video here: [youtube height="HEIGHT" width="WIDTH"]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjqWXk_aQfQ[/youtube] Want to know why I loved the capital city of Hungary so much? Here are just ten reasons why I adore Budapest, even if there are may many more…
Head to a Spa You would be seriously crazy to go all that way to the "city of spas" and not take in one or two of Budapest's 15 (give or take) public thermal baths and spas. The biggest (and probably the most famous) is the Széchenyi Spa Baths… and for good reason. This is one not to miss, especially during the summer - we enjoyed basking in the heat of the day whilst shoulder deep in this outdoor bubbling spa. You can also take yourselves inside and negotiate the maze of indoor spa baths of varying heats (phwoar, some were so hot it felt like we were being boiled alive!) but these are purely worth walking through for the stunning architecture alone.
Spot the older generation of locals sitting in the spa playing chess or fight for a natural spring jet with an older swimming hat-clad lady (ahem!) and soak up the relaxing atmosphere this spa offers.
My top tip if trying to save pennies here is to book yourself one changing cubicle between two of you and share it for the visit - halves the cost and it didn't feel necessary to have one each - they are quite pricey at around 6000 HUF (£17) for entry into the spa and a cabin, you could pay around 1700 HUF (£4.80) each for a spa ticket and around 500 HUF (£1.50) for a cabin separately, so get savvy and check out their website before you visit for the best deal.
Whichever spa you visit, make sure you drink plenty of water before/throughout/after your visit - it's unbelievably dehydrating work all this relaxing around spas!
And don't forget to take a swimming cap with you - some spas will not let you in without a cap, so make sure you have one with you.
We also visited the Gellért Thermal Baths (the most photographed baths in Budapest, you can see why) for a completely different spa experience. This, again, has indoor and outdoor elements, but is very clear why this beautifully ornate art nouveau spa inspired Wes Anderson's 'The Grand Budapest Hotel' spa scenes - it felt like we were in the middle of this film surrounded by local ladies in swimming caps taking part in some beautifully symmetrical aqua fit class throughout our visit here.
In fact, I even got roped into joining them for part of their class, with a kind lady passing me some aquafit floats to join them, just hilarious and surreal in equal measures.
The Gellért spa also offers spa treatments and during the summer allows you access to one of the world's oldest wave machines, which is so much fun to try. We were sunbathing within this pool when all of a sudden we noticed people were plugging themselves excitedly into the pool although they were waiting for something, it completely baffled us to begin with. And then, a bell rang (this happens on the hour throughout the summer months) and the waves started, catching us unawares and turning us into big kids immediately - so much fun!
Visit a Castle Vajdahunyad Castle is within a truly romantic setting, nestled in the City Park by a boating lake, it can be tied in with a visit to the Széchenyi Spa Baths.
This beautiful Hungarian castle was originally built out of cardboard and wood until it got upgraded to stone - it's a fairytale castle, surrounded by water and parkland, it's the perfect spot for a wedding of which we saw a bride and groom taking photos during our brief visit after our day in the spa. It's a beautiful spot at dusk, watching the sun begin to set behind the castle was a truly magical moment.
Not forgetting the majestic Buda Castle, of which you can't miss from sight as you wander around the City, tucked high above the River Danube on the Buda side.
This is a stunning historical castle, surrounded by ornate stone sculptures and fountains, with one of the best views of Pest spreading out across from you, this is one panoramic photo spot you won't want to miss.
You can brave the climb up to this castle from the streets below, or like us, you can take the Castle Hill Funicular for a few HUF - this is well worth the ticket purchase. Although the touristy element might mean a little wait to get up there, it's well worth taking the Funicular for a little fun (and a rest of the legs!)…
Hit The Ruin Bars From quirky rooftop bars and unique "ruin bars" of varying themes and sizes, there's a great drinking spot on every street in Budapest!
Ruin bars are 'pop-up' bars propped up between old, crumbling buildings and are a mix of indoor and outdoor spaces decorated with fairy lights, electric furniture and random decor depending on the bar.
This scene varies on atmosphere depending on the time of day you visit, what can be a really chilled out vibe in the daytime can turn into a rave in the evening, so it's always a unique experience, no matter when you head there.
Just don't say "cheers" ("egészségedre" pronounced Eggy shakira!) to beer, it's bad form in Hungary!
Read my tips on my fave Budapest Ruin Bars here! Affordable Food & Drink The street food scene is awesome here.
Head to Karavan for a variety of street food vendors or treat yourself to some cheese-stuffed Langos (like deep fried pizza, erm, yum!) for food on the go. Central Market Hall, not only a beautiful building, but offers a fantastic buzz and great for street food vendors with local food. Here we enjoyed Goulash encased in a bread roll bowl and bought our Hungarian Paprika to take home as gifts, perfect.
Hungarian Tunnel Cake is also a must… spherical doughnut cones, often hollow and coated in a cinnamon sugar are the tastiest sweet treat in the street (say that fast) - find somewhere that uses these beauties as an ice cream cone and enjoy a "mister whippy" ice cream with a difference!
The Hungarian Forint is the currency here and you can genuinely have a really good two-course meal and a glass of wine or a beer for under £15, you can really treat yourself here.
Read my full write up on places to eat in Budapest here.
Look Up 
Everywhere you walk, it's just a good idea to look up.
Adopt this idea early on and you will spot a stunning side to Budapest that you may not spot if you don't look around everywhere you go.
From stunning buildings, to talented artistic murals on street corners through to the most beautifully ornate ceilings in places you just wouldn't expect to see such sights, you never stop taking in Budapest's beauty.
Walk into the Alexandra Bookstore on Andrássy út opposite the Hungarian State Opera House (a little like a Borders or other such chain bookstore) and ride the escalators all the way to the very top of the building…. do it, you won't be sorry. At the very top floor is the beautiful Lotz Hall Cafe…. now look up, then sit down, order some delicious refreshments and continue to stare at this stunning ceiling, it's a work of art.
Historic Budapest There are some exceptional buildings and parks to enjoy in Budapest, they alone could keep you busy for days on end.
Whilst up on the Buda side of the city, take in Fisherman's Bastion as well as Buda Castle for views high above the river. Or from the Pest side, head up to the top of St Stephen's Basilica, which arguably has the scariest elevator to the top I have ever had the displeasure of using (it was very old naturally and sweaty on a super hot summers' day, as well as the fact it was really quite rickety and felt like we were about to plummet to the ground with any sudden movement).
That aside, this offers 360* views of Budapest and it's one worth taking in at dusk, with the sun setting and not too bright in your eyes, it's a magical spot.
There are museums all over the city, but if you must visit one, I would suggest visiting the House of Terror Museum, offering a great insight into Budapest's darker past and contains exhibits related to the facist and communist regimes in 20th-century Hungary, it's an educational and moving memorial to the people who were interrogated or killed in this building as well as around other parts of the city. I left here in tears and saw a very different side to Budapest after visiting this museum. (Allow a few hours to see this fully).
Carrying on the theme of a darker past, you must also head down to the river in front of Parliament after visiting this museum and take some time to reflect by the "Shoes on the Danube", a moving memorial to the victims shot into the Danube during the Nazi occupation throughout 1944-45. There are 60 pairs of period shoes created by sculptors out of cast iron, showing a varied selection of mens, women's and children's shoes, it's very haunting, but important to take time to see.
One iconic location you will spot in any photo album of Budapest is the impressive Hungarian Parliament Building. It's a popular landmark and is worth having a look at in the daylight and by boat on the river seeing it all lit up at night. Behind the building is a long artistic water fountain and the local trams slide past on a regular basis, so there's some great Insta-worthy photos to be taken here.
Oh, The Views Did you know that Budapest is home to a UNESCO World Heritage Site? Heroes' Square (Hősök Tere) is mighty impressive with its' tall statues featuring the Seven Chieftains of the Magyars and other important Hungarian national leaders, as well as the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.
This is a large-scale monument and one that offers plenty of space between you and other tourists around, it's a huge square. I had to use my fish-eye lens to get the whole monument into a quick iPhone photo, an amazing place!
The Citadella can be seen from pretty much everywhere, it's one of the tallest points in the city, if not THE tallest focal point high up on Gellért Hill. It's a fortress, with a long military history and well worth a visit for the views of the city below alone. We could see this landmark from our Airbnb Apartment and again from our hotel a few nights later, it's a great way to help navigate around the city.
Whilst here, we saw trucks washing the roads with water sprays, as the tarmac was literally melting in the heat of the day - it was hot up there (mid August) and not much shade, so we didn't stick around too long.
If you get the chance, head to Margaret Island (in the river between Buda and Pest) to promenade around the park, look at the ruins and enjoy the spas and pools (check their annual opening times) or hop on a boat and enjoy a dinner cruise on the Danube.
And don't forget to check out the Budapest street art -
see my blog here! The Bridges 
Budapest is famous for its' beautiful bridges over the Danube, which connect a hilly Buda with a flat Pest, which were two cities until 1873.
The oldest is Chain Bridge, the longest is Megyeri Bridge and Liberty Bridge was closed to car traffic for three months during the summer to allow locals and tourists alike to enjoy it on foot and use it as a picnic spot - such a great idea.
As we walked the length of Liberty Bridge on our first night, we spotted hammocks hanging from the arches and locals snuggled up watching the sun go down with chilled beers to boot. This was my kind of bridge.
One of my favourite things to do in Budapest was walk the length of the bridges, then head back, taking in both sides of the city from different angles - do this if you have the time, it's a great way to relax and unwind on the cooler part of a nice day.
We found a fantastic outdoor bar called "Terasz" for cold beers or fröccs under the Pest side of Elizabeth bridge, complete with fake grass, deck chairs and chilled music, a brilliant spot to watch the boats coast past and relax in the sunshine.
For Fröccs Sake The Hungarians invented the wine/soda water combo better known as fröccs and they come in all kinds of wine to water ratios, bars and pubs serve them on huge menus to choose from, no matter what your taste in wine.
This is a really refreshing drink on a hot day (like a wine spritzer usually made with white or rosé wines) and we enjoyed many different combinations around the city, taking ideas home to recreate to this day. Don't make the mistake we did and go in asking for a "Frocks"… you will get very puzzled looks!
Fröccs is pronounced "frerch", to rhyme with perch. Head to the Fröccsterasz opposite the very quirky Akvárium Klub for a great choice of fröccs, just note that if you need the loo and head underneath the Akvárium pool you will need to pay 200 HUF (60p) for a visit…
Events In Budapest 
Also look out for events running throughout the year, Budapest is host to awesome music and beer festivals, exhibitions and film festivals. We even got to see the practice day of the Red Bull Air Race during our stay, watching in awe as the planes swooped under bridges and along the water in preparation for a fun-filled weekend, such an unexpected treat to see.
Home to the Biro and the Rubik's cube - 5.6 secs is the world record apparently - what other reasons do you need to put Budapest on your travel wish list?! In fact, I love Budapest so much that I didn't get half of what I wanted to do done… I will be back very soon.
Now, if you're stuck for holiday inspiration, go spend some time in Budapest, it's an affordable and exciting city. My advice? Two or three nights is simply not enough to explore Budapest, even six days wasn't long enough to do everything at a leisurely pace, so make sure you go for a long long weekend if nothing more.
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A cafe or coffee shop can vary so much, from decor through to the quality of the food, beverages, background music and even the crowd it draws in. It's an affordable way to enjoy a substantial amount of time away from the chaos of the world around you and it's my favourite way to explore a new city in an affordable way - you don't need to book into an expensive restaurant to get a feel for the food scene in a new location, I simply head to the local coffee stop to enjoy some peace and quiet. A relaxed coffee shop can help me to chill out, warm up, relax, get that blog post written, recharge my batteries after a heavy night of beer drinking or provide a great & affordable meeting place with friends. A buzzing cafe, serving great coffee and delicious homemade treats alongside a kick-ass soundtrack can MAKE a day to myself or visit to a new city for me. I've travelled around the world a fair bit in the last few years and here's a roundup of just some of my favourite "thinking places"... Figbar, Norwich (UK) 
This dessert bar in the historic Norwich Lanes is a must-visit. Everything is fantastic here. All their goodies are freshly baked and prepared on site, paired with well thought out wine and champagne selections, as well as hot chocolate, teas, coffees or cold drinks on offer. Indulgent cakes and treats, top restaurant-quality desserts, locally sourced coffee, elegant furnishings, unique crockery to eat and drink from, classy wooden floors and bars to prop yourself against, relaxed tunes, twinkly fairy lights around the bathroom door…. Add it to your food bucket list right now and 
Tucked away down a little street behind the main shopping district in Leeds, Mrs Atha's is a quirky and independent "hipster" location for a cuppa, brunch or a slice of indulgent homemade cake. I enjoyed eggs benedict and my bearded manfriend tucked into a truly delicious sausage sandwich. The only drawback was the waiting time... 1.5 hours for our food, with no real apology or waiting time made aware. However, I'll forgive them, as the food was really very good, the coffee was smooth and the decor had us plotting our very own gallery wall in our new home, it's a cool little place. Fabrique, Stockholm (Sweden) 
Although a chain of traditional wood-fired bakeries throughout Stockholm, Fabrique can be forgiven once you've spotted their enticing selection of freshly baked breads, pastries and cakes in the glorious window displays across this vibrant city. I enjoyed a lazy (and snowy!) Sunday morning breakfast at their bakery in the old town (Gamla Stan) where I nibbled on a traditional Swedish saffron bun & freshly brewed coffee (
Whilst still in Stockholm mode, let's talk about this all day breakfast and brunch venue that deserves the 90 minute queue on a Saturday morning! Yep, up to 90 minutes in the snow and icy wind whilst visiting, but they provide you with blankets to wrap up into and a free coffee trolley by the front door whilst you wait. It's honestly worth the wait if you have to, from pancakes and waffles, bagels with all the trimmings, smoothies, milkshakes porridge and fabulous vegetarian options if you want the full breakfast without meat. It gets busy here at weekends, so you are given a table for 45 minutes which is plenty of time to tuck in and enjoy a bottomless cup of filter coffee with your food. 
When you're craving the best of the BEST homemade cake or a worthwhile "treat" lunch then The Linton Kitchen is the perfect retreat. Situated in the chocolate box high street of Linton, a small village on the outskirts of Cambridge. Gemma and her team are passionate about making this a place where people relax, meet new friends and enjoy local and seasonal ingredients within their food. Their carrot cake is something super special, not just a carrot cake, this is a dreamy, creamy, indulgent carrot cake topped with fresh fruit and a sprinkle of love... true story. Clary's, Savannah (USA) 
In fact, this is the WORLD FAMOUS Clary's Cafe, as seen in the 1997 film "Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil" - was once a drugstore, but has since become a popular Cafe serving homemade Southern American breakfasts. With it having free wifi and being dog friendly, this is a chilled cafe to visit ahead of a busy day exploring the city. There were some unusual elements in their breakfast omelettes, such as the apple and cheese version… I ordered it naturally, as I was more than intrigued, but not sure it worked. Plenty of filter coffee refills and a group breakfast got us in the mood for a day of exploring this stunning city on foot in the spring sunshine. I have fallen for Savannah in a big way and I will be back! 
For all out opulence, no visit to Budapest is complete without an ornate pot of tea and some intricate cakes to tuck into with the finest silver cake forks, all whilst listening to the resident pianist twinkling away beside you. The walls, floors, ceilings are all dripping with beautiful colours and decor, one of the grandest places to enjoy a civilised afternoon tea in the heart of the city. The Opera cake is out of this world, should you be indecisive over the extensive cake menu... 
You might miss this trendy little coffee shop if walking past, as it's tucked away within a gorgeous little courtyard between the Inner City and Palace District. If you like your coffee "trendy" then this is the place for you. Serving freshly bottled smoothies and "nitro" coffee alongside a French-inspired menu, I can HIGHLY recommend the Croque Madame for a light lunch out of the heat of the summer lunchtime rush. Although in the city, you feel tucked right away from the bustle here - a perfect thinking place. 
The trendiest and cosiest brunch space I've ever had the pleasure of visiting. This was once an old art deco cinema, now a superb cafe over three levels, each floor offering a vary different feel to the last. Curl up on beanbags at low-level tables, or huddle around tables as a couple or a group to enjoy their beautiful and vibrant food and drink. This is a place to be seen to be believed, a real treat - you won't want to leave! You can enjoy a varied breakfast menu or just pop in for coffee and homemade cakes made purely for Instagram porn! 
This cute little tearoom in Bourton-On-the-Water brings back super happy memories of my first mini break with the bearded one. We popped in en route to a weekend away in Bath and this little place had just opened up. We enjoyed sampling their tea menu with proper tea cups and teapots, on our best behaviour as a family new couple still trying to wildly impress each other with our good manners hehe. Their homemade cake was divine, I don't normally opt for coconut-based treats, but their lime and coconut sponge was unusual for my taste, but oh my, this was delicious. Every time I think about this place, a smile appears, this is a corner of the world that makes me very happy indeed. 
Where are YOUR favourite cafes or coffee shops to recharge around the world? I'd love to hear from you in a comment below!